looking out the window during this journey

Okay, has reality really checked in with me or what? My birthday has passed and I realize that I am getting older. I feel much better than I did before, but I am getting older and I can not go back and re-live the last twenty years. I need to move forward. As I have lost weight and I am more aware of my body and what it looks like, my mind is full of thoughts about others I see who are over weight. I get mad knowing that it took me so long to make a decision. I get upset about the wasted years of my life of not being able to do something. Now that I am better, not perfect, but better off, I so what the same for others. I want to know what it is going to take for others to get started. Can I really help someone get started? Most importantly, can I help someone start and make a difference in their life over a time. I am concerned about others and if I can somehow share what I know with others than I will be able to come circle with my weight loss journey.