How did I let myself go?

Reflection time!   I am trying to determine why I gained so much weight.    When did I stop thinking about myself and how I looked?   Was everything I did worth it?   I may never have all the answers.  What I do know is that I am the answer.  The answer to the question "who will stay determined?', "who needs to created a lifestyle change?" "Who is now taking the time to put herself first?   All my life I thought about helping everyone else that I forgot to take time for me!